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Do Not Fight the Man With Grace

Gods Riches At Christ Expense (GRACE)

In every sphere of life; career, leadership, ministry, relationships, and even simple daily interactions there are people who carry something beyond natural ability. Their progress defies logic. Their results exceed effort. Their doors open without struggle. Their battles end before they begin. These are people who walk under what many call grace—a divine enablement that makes impossibilities bow and mountains shift.

To fight such a person is to engage in a battle you are already destined to lose.

Grace is not talent. It is not intelligence. It is not wealth or influence. Grace is that invisible force that amplifies one’s voice, prospers one’s steps, and shields one’s destiny. When a man walks in grace, his mistakes are covered, his inadequacies are compensated for, and his path is mysteriously cleared. His victories are not merely the result of strategy; they are the outcome of divine backing.

Why You Should Not Fight a Man With Grace

1. Grace Is a Backing You Cannot See

You may see only the human being, but you do not see the hand behind him. To challenge a man carried by grace is to challenge the force carrying him. Many people have fought individuals, unaware that they were wrestling with something greater than human strength.

2. Grace Makes Setbacks Irrelevant

A man with grace may fall, but he does not stay down. His rising is inevitable. Opponents waste energy attacking him, only to watch him emerge stronger. Fighting a man who cannot stay defeated is a futile battle.

3. Grace Turns Attacks Into Promotion

When a graced person is pushed, he rises. When he is opposed, he accelerates. What was intended for his downfall becomes the very catalyst for his advancement. Those who fight him unknowingly push him into new realms of visibility and victory.

4. Fighting Grace Brings Unnecessary Trouble

History and personal experience show that fighting someone who carries grace often leads to self-inflicted wounds. People lose peace, opportunities, and even relationships because they positioned themselves against the wrong person.

What You Should Do Instead

1. Recognize Grace When You See It

Humility allows you to discern it. Envy blinds you to it. Instead of asking, “Why him?” ask, “What can I learn from him?”

2. Honour Grace

Honour attracts. Dishonour repels. When you honour people who carry grace, you create room for that same grace to speak for you.

3. Protect Your Heart

Comparison, jealousy, and resentment are traps. Guard your heart from competing with people who are not even fighting you.

4. Focus on Your Own Path

Every person has a measure of grace. Yours may be different, but it is still powerful. Competing with someone else blinds you to the unique path God has crafted for you.

The Wisdom in Restraint

Sometimes silence is wiser than confrontation. Sometimes stepping aside is stronger than fighting. Sometimes honouring grace is more profitable than proving a point. When you understand how grace works, you stop engaging in battles that do not concern your destiny.

Grace is not always loud, but its results are undeniable. When you see a man or woman rising inexplicably—facing giants and winning with ease—be wise. Do not fight such a person. Instead, align yourself with grace. Celebrate it. Learn from it. Honour it. Because what you honour, you attract.

In life, the strongest people are not those who fight the hardest but those who understand the battles worth fighting and the ones to walk away from.

Do not fight the man with grace. You cannot win.
But you can learn, grow, and even rise with him.

Inspired by: Olayiwola Afolabi SAN

Author: Augustina Ojenikoh Harrison


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Made for Dominion

As children of God, we were created to reign in life. The Bible says in Genesis 1:28 that God blessed us and said, “Be fruitful, multiply, fill the earth, and subdue it. Have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”

This mandate is not just a distant memory but a present reality. We were made for dominion. We were created to rule, to reign, and to have authority over the earth. But what does this mean in practical terms?

It means we were made to live a life of purpose, a life that makes a difference. We were made to solve problems, to innovate, and to create. We were made to lead, to inspire, and to empower others.

But our dominion is not just about what we do; it’s also about who we are. We are children of the Most High God, and our identity is rooted in Him. We are sons and daughters of the King, and our inheritance is the kingdom of God.

As we embrace our identity and our purpose, we will begin to see the world around us change. We will see darkness pushed back by the light of God’s presence in us. We will see hope restored, and we will see lives transformed.

So let us rise up and take our place as sons and daughters of the Most High God. Let us embrace our dominion and rule with grace, humility, and wisdom. Let us be the light of the world, shining brightly for all to see.

We were made for dominion. Let us live like it.

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Privilege to Purpose

My name is Tina, and for years I thought I knew what success meant. I thought it was being comfortable and my ability to do things with ease, but I was very wrong.


I was born to a respected engineer and a business woman, I grew up in comfort. I had quality education from kindergarten to my first degree  and a family that believed in my future — my life was a checklist of privilege.

When I graduated I joined one of Nigeria’s most prestigious firms, everyone congratulated me. I was living the dream. But how true was this dream without purpose?

Yet every time I walked past a crowded magistrate’s court or heard stories of people languishing in detention without legal help, a quiet question nagged me: Is this all there is? How can I make a change?

That question became louder one rainy afternoon. I was at court filing documents for a big commercial case when I saw a frightened teenage girl at the clerk’s desk. She had been arrested for hawking without a permit. She had no lawyer, no money for bail, and no one to speak for her. Watching her, I felt something shift inside me.

That night I couldn’t sleep. I opened my jotter and wrote at the top of the page: “Privilege to Purpose.” Underneath, I listed the skills, contacts, and resources I had and how I could use them for people like that girl.

A few months later, I took a leap of faith and founded Tinaris Legal Clinic. It started as a small pro bono desk with just me and two volunteers. We focused on indigent inmates, women, who had been left behind by the justice system. We negotiated bail, challenged unlawful detentions, and ran “Know Your Rights” outreaches.

It wasn’t easy. I gave up many evenings and weekends, lost weight from stress, and endured people calling me “too idealistic.” But with every released inmate or detainee from unlawful detention, every widow who got her property back, every young man who finally had legal representation, I felt something I had never felt in the corporate world — deep, sustaining purpose.

Today, Tinaris Legal Clinic has grown into a network of volunteer lawyers and advocates across the state. We’re still small, but our impact runs deep. When I speak at conferences or meet young lawyers, I tell them:

“Privilege is not the destination — it’s the platform. Every skill, connection, and advantage you possess is a tool. The question is: what are you building with it?”

Looking back, I see the girl I once was  ambitious, eager, and searching for meaning. I smile knowing I’ve finally aligned my life and my work. My journey from privilege to purpose isn’t finished, but it’s the most meaningful case I’ll ever take on.

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A Legacy Secured: The Story of Mrs. Josephine Alvary and Mr. Macpherson Josiah

Protecting your family from Preys

Mrs. Josephine Alvary, a retired school principal, and Mr. Macpherson Josiah, a retired civil servant and widower, had something in common. They had both spent their lives building legacies—not just in their careers, but for their families. With age came wisdom… and a growing concern.
Both had heard stories—painful, heartbreaking stories—of families torn apart by disputes over inheritance, especially when there was no clear plan in place. They had seen how customary law, especially in some communities, could override a person’s true wishes. Daughters excluded. Widows chased out. Assets scattered.
“I don’t want my children to fight after I’m gone,” Mrs. Alvary said to Mr. Josiah over tea one Sunday afternoon.
“And I don’t want my nephews laying claim to the house I built from scratch just because I have no male child,” Mr. Josiah added, his eyes heavy with memory.
So together, they sought help.
They walked into Tinaris Legal Clinic, a place they had heard about at a church seminar. Warmly received by a team of professionals, they were given a free consultation. Their fears were not dismissed; they were understood.
The lawyer on duty took time to explain the two main legal tools available for planning their estate: the Will and the Trust.


“Yes, a Will allows you to say who gets what,” the lawyer said, “but it becomes active only after death and must go through probate. And in many parts of Nigeria, Wills are still challenged by family members based on customary law. That’s where a Trust gives you an edge.”
With a Trust, they learned:
• They could begin managing their estate now.
• They could set conditions—like funding education, or providing healthcare—for specific beneficiaries.
• Their instructions would remain private and protected, not exposed to community interference.
• Most importantly, their estate wouldn’t be forced through prolonged court processes or overridden by custom.
“I wish I had known this earlier,” Mrs. Alvary whispered. “Now I see why families fall apart.”
Mr. Josiah, relieved, said: “This is the peace of mind I was praying for. I will decide who takes care of my niece with special needs, not leave it to assumptions.”
By the end of the meeting, they both agreed: a Trust was the more relevant option for them. It gave them what a Will could not—control beyond the grave, protection from customary impositions, and a guarantee that their loved ones would be cared for exactly as they intended.
They each appointed Tinaris Legal Clinic as professional Trustees—neutral, reliable, and committed to justice.
Plan wisely. Protect your family. Preserve your legacy.

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Embracing Change in Law Practice

Sixteen years ago, I embarked on a journey that would transform my life and the world of law practice forever. With determination and a humble start, I would jumped on a bike being the fastest means of transportation where I reside to meet up the courts time which is 9am, the wind in my hair, and the thrill of the unknown ahead of me. Each ride to the courthouse was a blend of excitement and anxiety; I was a young lawyer, eager to make my mark.

In those early days, my arsenal consisted of clunky volumes of legal reports and case law, spread across tables and desks. Every legal brief I crafted involved flipping through stacks of paper, making meticulous notes, and cross-referencing information from various sources. Research was labor-intensive, requiring hours of sifting through countless tomes to find the relevant precedents. Yet, it was all part of the journey, shaping my understanding of the law and my passion for justice.

Fast forward to today, and what a remarkable evolution it has been! The arrival of technology has revolutionized our practice. While we still maintain a brick-and-mortar office, it’s become just one facet of our operations. The advancement into a digital realm means that geographical boundaries are no longer a barrier. We now operate a borderless office, linking clients and colleagues from all corners of the globe seamlessly.

Our practice has embraced virtual setups in the courtroom, a shift that has made legal processes more accessible and efficient. Attorneys from different jurisdictions can now connect and collaborate without the restrictions of travel or location. This is especially beneficial for those who need assistance navigating complex legal landscapes. With just a click, we can engage in virtual hearings, allowing clients to participate from the comfort of their homes.

The integration of technology has not only accelerated our processes but has improved our accuracy and efficiency. Document management systems and legal databases now allow us to access information at lightning speed, bringing the knowledge of countless volumes right to our fingertips. Research that once took days can now be completed in moments, freeing up time to focus on what truly matters—our clients and their needs.

Today, as I reflect on the journey from riding bike to court with a bag full of papers to managing a hybrid practice, I feel a profound sense of gratitude. This evolution has been made possible not just by technological advancements but by the resilience and adaptability of our team. Together, we have embraced the digital future while cherishing the lessons of our past.

As I look towards tomorrow, the possibilities are endless. We stand ready to continue evolving, leveraging technology to deliver better service and uphold justice in a way that is faster, more efficient, and more inclusive than ever before. The commitment remains the same: to serve with integrity, compassion, and an unwavering dedication to our clients.

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Finding his path

The flickering neon sign of the “Lucky Dime” cast a lurid glow on fifteen-year-old Caleb’s face as he leaned against the graffiti-scarred wall. His eyes, usually bright with youthful curiosity, were now shadowed with a hardened cynicism that belied his age. Tonight’s score had been small – a few phones snatched from distracted market-goers. Enough for his fix, maybe a little extra for the gang leader, “Blade.”

Caleb remembered a different life, a life filled with the scent of incense and the rhythmic cadence of hymns. His grandmother, Mama Sarah, a woman whose hands were as calloused from work as they were gentle in prayer, had filled his childhood with stories from the Good Book. He could still hear her voice, raspy but firm, reciting Proverbs 1:10: “My son, if sinners entice you, do not give in to them.

But the whispers of the street had been louder, more immediate than Mama Sarah’s gentle warnings. The allure of belonging, the false sense of power that came with Blade’s crew, had choked out the seeds of faith she had planted. Now, the Bible lay dusty and forgotten under his bed, its wisdom a distant echo. His friend, fifteen-year-old Chidi, shuffled beside him, his gaze fixed on the bustling street. Chidi, whose laughter used to fill the church youth group, now carried a perpetual air of unease. Their descent had been gradual, a series of small compromises fueled by boredom, desperation, and the intoxicating pull of acceptance.”Blade wants us at the warehouse,” Chidi mumbled, kicking a loose stone.

As they walked, Caleb couldn’t shake off a memory Mama Sarah had shared – the parable of the prodigal son (Luke 15:11-32). He’d always felt a pang of sympathy for the son who had squandered his inheritance. Now, he felt a chilling resonance. Had he not squandered the inheritance of love and faith he had been given?

The warehouse was a cavernous space filled with stolen goods and the acrid smell of cheap cigarettes. Blade, a wiry youth with eyes that held no trace of innocence, addressed them. “Tonight, we hit the electronics store on Market Street. Caleb, you’re quick, you go in first.”

Fear coiled in Caleb’s stomach. He knew this was escalating. Mama Sarah’s words echoed again, Proverbs 1:19: “Such are the ways of all who are greedy for gain; it takes away the life of its possessors.” He saw the truth in her words, the hollowness in Blade’s eyes, the desperation in Chidi’s.

Their “gain” was slowly stealing their very souls. Later that night, huddled in a corner with Chidi, sharing a meagre meal, Caleb voiced his unease. “

This isn’t right, Chidi. Mama Sarah… she always said there was a better way.”Chidi scoffed, but Caleb saw a flicker of doubt in his eyes. “Better way? Where? We’re stuck, Caleb. No one else wants us.”

Caleb remembered another scripture, Philippians 4:13: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” The words felt distant, almost mocking in their current reality. But a tiny spark of hope ignited within him. Maybe, just maybe, there was a way out.

The next day, instead of meeting Blade, Caleb found himself walking towards the familiar gates of his old church. The Sunday service was in progress, the sounds of the choir spilling out into the street. Hesitantly, he pushed the door open and slipped into a back pew. He saw Mama Sarah, her face etched with worry, but her eyes widened with a mixture of shock and relief as she spotted him.

The sermon that day was on repentance and forgiveness, drawing from the story of Zacchaeus (Luke 19:1-10). The pastor spoke of how even those who had strayed far could find redemption. Tears welled up in Caleb’s eyes. He felt a profound sense of shame, but also a glimmer of hope he hadn’t felt in months.

After the service, Mama Sarah rushed to him, her embrace tight and filled with unspoken love.”Caleb, my child! Where have you been?”He couldn’t articulate the shame and confusion that swirled within him. He simply said, “Mama, I… I’ve made mistakes.”

Mama Sarah held his face in her hands, her eyes filled with compassion. “The Lord is merciful, Caleb. ‘If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness’ (1 John 1:9).”

The road to recovery wasn’t easy. Caleb had to face the consequences of his actions, the distrust of those he had wronged, and the difficult process of disentangling himself from Blade’s grip.

Chidi, torn between loyalty and a yearning for something better, eventually followed Caleb’s lead. They found support within the church community, mentors who guided them, and opportunities for honest work.

The dusty Bible under Caleb’s bed was now open, its pages worn from use. The scriptures that once seemed distant now offered guidance and solace.

Their journey was a testament to the enduring power of faith and the possibility of redemption, even for those who had wandered far from the path. They learned that true belonging wasn’t found in the fleeting camaraderie of a gang, but in the unwavering love of a community grounded in faith and forgiveness.

They were living proof that even in the darkest corners, the light of scripture could illuminate a path towards a new beginning.

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Being a Christian and a Divorce Attorney: A Delicate Balance of Faith and Professional Duty

By Augustina Ojenikoh Harrison, Esq.

The intersection of faith and legal practice can often be a challenging terrain, especially when one is a Christian lawyer specializing in divorce cases. It is a profession that requires one to reconcile personal religious convictions with the demands of justice and the realities of human relationships.

Many people assume that being a Christian should automatically preclude one from handling divorce cases, citing biblical teachings on the sanctity of marriage.

However, much like a doctor who is brought a lifeless body and must perform their professional duty before certifying the individual as deceased, a divorce attorney is tasked with ensuring that justice, fairness, and due process prevail in cases where marriages have already deteriorated beyond repair.

The Christian Perspective on Marriage and Divorce

Christianity upholds marriage as a sacred covenant, designed to reflect the love and unity between Christ and the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33).

The Bible expresses strong views on divorce, with Jesus Himself stating, “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder” (Matthew 19:6, KJV).

However, the same passage acknowledges that Moses permitted divorce due to the hardness of human hearts (Matthew 19:8), recognizing that, in some cases, separation may become necessary.

As a Christian, I believe in the sanctity of marriage and its divine purpose. I encourage reconciliation, counseling, and mediation wherever possible.

However, I also recognize that some marriages become toxic, abusive, or irreparably broken, necessitating legal intervention. Just as Jesus showed compassion to the woman caught in adultery (John 8:1-11), our faith must lead us to approach individuals facing marital crises with love, not condemnation.

The Role of the Divorce Attorney: A Parallel with the Doctor and a Dead Body

Consider the plight of a medical doctor brought a lifeless body. Despite knowing the patient is likely deceased, the doctor must conduct a professional assessment—checking for vital signs, performing necessary medical procedures, and ultimately certifying the death. It is not the doctor’s role to dictate life and death but to diagnose and act accordingly.

In the same way, a divorce attorney does not “kill” a marriage but assesses whether it is legally and functionally viable. Clients do not seek a divorce lawyer to destroy their marriage; they often come after years of suffering, emotional detachment, and failed attempts at reconciliation. By the time they arrive, many have already exhausted every means to salvage the relationship.

Like the doctor, the divorce attorney has to evaluate the situation, protect the rights of the parties involved, and ensure a just and equitable resolution.

Balancing Faith with Legal Duty

Being a Christian divorce attorney means recognizing that while God’s ideal is for marriages to last, the reality of sin and human frailty sometimes necessitates dissolution.

My faith does not permit me to impose my personal beliefs on clients; rather, it calls me to act with integrity, wisdom, and compassion.

1. Promoting Mediation and Reconciliation

Before filing for divorce, I explore mediation where there is a glimmer of hope and counselling options with my clients.

Many times, legal proceedings can be avoided if underlying conflicts are addressed through proper dialogue. I take seriously the biblical mandate to be a peacemaker (Matthew 5:9) and encourage reconciliation where possible.

2. Advocating for Justice and Protection

Some marriages are plagued by domestic violence, emotional abuse, and gross neglect. In such cases, the lawyer’s role extends beyond legal representation to advocacy for the oppressed. Proverbs 31:8-9 instructs us to “Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves.” Ensuring that a battered spouse or vulnerable children are legally protected is a moral duty, not a contradiction of faith.

3. Handling Each Case with Grace and Sensitivity

Divorce is often accompanied by pain, betrayal, and emotional devastation. As a Christian attorney, I strive to treat each case with empathy, avoiding unnecessary hostility and focusing on fair settlements. Colossians 4:6 reminds us: “Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt.” A lawyer’s approach can either fuel bitterness or foster dignity and healing.

A Call to Purposeful Lawyering

Being a Christian and a divorce attorney is not a contradiction, but a call to serve with wisdom and compassion.

Just as a doctor must declare death when there is no life, a lawyer must facilitate legal closure when a marriage is beyond repair.

The goal is not to celebrate divorce, but to ensure justice, fairness, and the well-being of those involved.

In the end, our calling as Christian legal practitioners is to uphold righteousness while extending mercy, understanding that our role is not to force outcomes, but to provide guidance and legal solutions with a heart of integrity.

It is in this balance that we truly fulfil both our faith and our professional duty.

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Standing in Solidarity with My Family: A Message of Love and Appreciation

As I reflect on the values that guide my life, I am reminded of the importance of family. The happiness and stability of my immediate family are of utmost importance to me. This core principle has been my guiding light, shaping my actions and decisions.

In recent times, my family and I have faced undue challenges, fueled by unfounded rumors. These baseless claims have not only affected us but have also sought to undermine the foundation of our love and unity. However, through it all, my wife has stood tall, a pillar of strength and resilience.

Her unwavering love and loyalty in the face of undeserved discourtesy have been a beacon of hope. I want to take this opportunity to express my deepest gratitude to her for her unshakeable commitment to our family. Her recent interview, where she boldly spoke out in defense of our family, was a testament to her courage and conviction.

I stand by my wife, wholeheartedly supporting her and the sentiments she expressed in the interview. Her words were not only a reflection of her character but also a demonstration of her unwavering dedication to our family’s well-being.

As we navigate these challenging times, I remain committed to upholding the undiminishing love, peace, and unity of my beloved family. I believe that our bond is unbreakable, forged through love, trust, and mutual respect.

To my wife, I say thank you. Thank you for being a shining example of strength and resilience. Thank you for your unwavering love and loyalty. And thank you for being an incredible partner and friend.

Together, we will continue to stand strong, united in our quest to protect and preserve the love and unity that define our family.

I strongly desire the above speech will be the testimonial of families in this new year. Husbands appreciate their wives. Wife’s not giving up on their Husband in the face of adversities. Thus building hope for the family unit in our children.

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The Journey of Oghenekevwe: A New Miracle

Oghenekevwe stood by the window, gazing at the vibrant fireworks painting the night sky as the clock ticked closer to midnight.

It was a beautiful sight, yet her heart was heavy. The past year had been a whirlwind, filled with laughter, challenges, and the constant juggling of responsibilities.

As a mother of two lively children, she often felt like she was teetering on a tightrope, balancing work, family, and her unfinished project thesis.



The end of 2024 had thrown her into a storm. The office workload had piled up, deadlines loomed like dark clouds, and the pressure to complete her thesis felt like an insurmountable mountain.

Just when she thought she could catch a breath, her extended family arrived for the holidays, bringing warmth, but also a financial strain that made her stomach churn. With limited funds left to ensure a joyful celebration, Oghenekevwe felt trapped.

“Mom, can we have a New Year’s party?” her daughter, Efe, had asked with bright, hopeful eyes. Oghenekevwe’s heart ached at the thought. How could she make it special with so little?

On the night of December 30th, she sat beside her husband, Tunde, on the couch, their children asleep. “I just want them to be happy,” she sighed, the weight of the world on her shoulders.

Tunde took her hand, his warm grip a comfort. “We’ll figure it out. Just remember, it’s not about how much we spend, but the love we share.”

The following day, as she busily prepped for the family gathering, Oghenekevwe stumbled upon an old friend’s message on social media. They hadn’t spoken in years, but her friend was in town and wanted to reconnect.

A wave of nostalgia washed over her as she read about how her friend had turned her passion for cooking into a small catering business.

The idea sparked something in Oghenekevwe. Why not use her culinary skills? She had always loved cooking, especially family recipes passed down from her grandmother. With a little creativity, she could prepare a feast that didn’t require a fortune.



That evening, she started reaching out to her friends and neighbours to contribute a dish for the New Year’s gathering. “It’s a potluck!” she declared, excitement bubbling within her.

To her surprise, everyone responded with enthusiasm. Just like that, the burden began to lift.

On New Year’s Eve, the house was alive with laughter and the aroma of delicious dishes. Oghenekevwe’s heart swelled with joy. The celebration wasn’t extravagant, but it was filled with warmth, love, and connection. Family and friends mingled, sharing stories and memories, creating a sense of community that was priceless.

As the clock struck midnight, Oghenekevwe held her children close, their faces illuminated by the glow of fireworks outside. “Happy New Year!” they shouted, their voices echoing the hope that filled the room. Tunde leaned in to kiss her forehead, whispering, “We did it together.”

In that moment, Oghenekevwe realized that 2024, despite its challenges, had taught her invaluable lessons about resilience, creativity, and the importance of community. As she looked toward 2025, she felt a renewed sense of hope. The promise of a new year was not just in the fresh calendar but in the strength she had discovered within herself.

With her family by her side and a spirit ignited by love and support, Oghenekevwe stepped into 2025 with courage and optimism. She knew that the journey ahead might still have its bumps, but she was ready to embrace them, armed with the belief that miracles often come when you least expect them.

HAPPY NEW YEAR

Welcome to 2025

A year filled with opportunities for your elevation.

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Amara’s Breaking Point

Amara in tears

The silence had become unbearable. Amara couldn’t take it anymore – the constant questioning of her intentions, the assumption that she was always wrong. She felt like she was drowning in a sea of misunderstandings.

One evening, as Kofi walked in the door, Amara stood up, her eyes blazing with determination.

“I need to talk to you,” she said, her voice trembling.

Kofi looked taken aback. “What’s wrong?”

“Everything,” Amara replied, her words spilling out like a dam breaking. “I feel like I’m walking on eggshells around you, around our friends. Every word I say is twisted, every gesture misinterpreted. I’m tired of being misunderstood, tired of being made to feel like I’m the problem.”

Kofi’s expression softened, and for a moment, Amara saw the man she fell in love with.

“I’m sorry, Amara. I had no idea it was this bad.”

Amara’s anger deflated, replaced by desperation.

“Help me understand what’s happening. Why can’t anyone see things from my perspective?”

Kofi took a step closer.

“Maybe we all need to work on communication. I’ll go to therapy with you, and we can figure this out together.”

Amara’s eyes welled up with tears.

“Really?”

Kofi nodded.

“I love you, Amara. I don’t want to lose you.”

For the first time in weeks, Amara felt a glimmer of hope.