Toxic; One Sided Love

Love is built on relationship and relationship grows by the commitment of two persons in love with each other, but in recent times some persons have found themselves in One Chance vehicle.

A one chance vehicle is one that does not  care or guarantee the safety of the passage picked up. Even if the passenger gets to it’s destination at last, something valuable would have left him or her.

A lot of folks get into one sided love relationship with a  that love grows over time despite the red light flagged from the onset. Only to live with misery all day long.

A one sided love places commitment and responsible on the party that loves while the other party is nonchalant enjoying the benefits that flows from the other party who loves but ignores giving back. This action breeds depression and frustration. 

One of the effects of one sided love is that it even affects the self image of the one who gives love. At this point I hear some of my friends say life is not balance, but it can be if the parties in the relationship can both sit down and commit to make it work.

A commitment by both parties to make it work, playing their roles, showing love mutually, listening to and meeting the other parties needs can improve and even go a long way to heal the hurts of yesterday.

My brothers and sisters love is good but it cannot be forced out, it’s difficult to teach an old man or woman to love what he does not love from childhood. So also it is difficult to get someone to love you when he or she does not love you. 

It’s good to dream and build castles in the air in the name of love or about love. Wake up love is not dream it is hard work. 

Don’t go for the impossible, love is not blind in this century that we now live in though it was in centuries past. Wait for LOVE it will come, but don’t jump into a one-sided relationship with a view that it will get better with time.

I have seen relationships and marriages fail on the note of one-sided love and you can’t help it because no matter how hard you try who nor love nor love. It is difficult to heal or mend a broken heart 💔 the scare will be there forever. Look before you leap, a stitch in time saves nine.