
In every sphere of life; career, leadership, ministry, relationships, and even simple daily interactions there are people who carry something beyond natural ability. Their progress defies logic. Their results exceed effort. Their doors open without struggle. Their battles end before they begin. These are people who walk under what many call grace—a divine enablement that makes impossibilities bow and mountains shift.
To fight such a person is to engage in a battle you are already destined to lose.
Grace is not talent. It is not intelligence. It is not wealth or influence. Grace is that invisible force that amplifies one’s voice, prospers one’s steps, and shields one’s destiny. When a man walks in grace, his mistakes are covered, his inadequacies are compensated for, and his path is mysteriously cleared. His victories are not merely the result of strategy; they are the outcome of divine backing.
Why You Should Not Fight a Man With Grace
1. Grace Is a Backing You Cannot See
You may see only the human being, but you do not see the hand behind him. To challenge a man carried by grace is to challenge the force carrying him. Many people have fought individuals, unaware that they were wrestling with something greater than human strength.
2. Grace Makes Setbacks Irrelevant
A man with grace may fall, but he does not stay down. His rising is inevitable. Opponents waste energy attacking him, only to watch him emerge stronger. Fighting a man who cannot stay defeated is a futile battle.
3. Grace Turns Attacks Into Promotion
When a graced person is pushed, he rises. When he is opposed, he accelerates. What was intended for his downfall becomes the very catalyst for his advancement. Those who fight him unknowingly push him into new realms of visibility and victory.
4. Fighting Grace Brings Unnecessary Trouble
History and personal experience show that fighting someone who carries grace often leads to self-inflicted wounds. People lose peace, opportunities, and even relationships because they positioned themselves against the wrong person.
What You Should Do Instead
1. Recognize Grace When You See It
Humility allows you to discern it. Envy blinds you to it. Instead of asking, “Why him?” ask, “What can I learn from him?”
2. Honour Grace
Honour attracts. Dishonour repels. When you honour people who carry grace, you create room for that same grace to speak for you.
3. Protect Your Heart
Comparison, jealousy, and resentment are traps. Guard your heart from competing with people who are not even fighting you.
4. Focus on Your Own Path
Every person has a measure of grace. Yours may be different, but it is still powerful. Competing with someone else blinds you to the unique path God has crafted for you.
The Wisdom in Restraint
Sometimes silence is wiser than confrontation. Sometimes stepping aside is stronger than fighting. Sometimes honouring grace is more profitable than proving a point. When you understand how grace works, you stop engaging in battles that do not concern your destiny.
Grace is not always loud, but its results are undeniable. When you see a man or woman rising inexplicably—facing giants and winning with ease—be wise. Do not fight such a person. Instead, align yourself with grace. Celebrate it. Learn from it. Honour it. Because what you honour, you attract.
In life, the strongest people are not those who fight the hardest but those who understand the battles worth fighting and the ones to walk away from.
Do not fight the man with grace. You cannot win.
But you can learn, grow, and even rise with him.
Inspired by: Olayiwola Afolabi SAN
Author: Augustina Ojenikoh Harrison
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