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A woman was made from the ribs of a man, she was made from a finished product thus she is soft but strong. She was made from a delicate bone. God uniquely created her.

As a woman, you must understand that you are  fearfully made, uniquely designed. Do not look down on yourself.

Man was instructed to treat the women as a weaker vessels because of her nature. However she is strong willed and greatness is her goal when she sets off.

She  is destined to become great  because of her strong will and this makes a way for her.

The woman to her husband is a helpmeet to assist her man in becoming great. The woman was not designed to be a full-time house wife as put forth by Proverbs 31. 

The woman is one loaded with business ideas, executing same and acquiring financial dominion. Her children and her husband are distinguished because she put to use the God-given abilities in her to provide help for others and her household by meeting their needs. 

The woman is designed to fulfil multiple tasks on a daily basis, but she must be sensitive to everyone, this is enhanced by her closer work with God. With the help of the Holy Spirit, the task becomes a work over.

A woman can be the best at whatever she sets her heart to do, her true beauty is the beauty that comes from within. Though her outward beauty fades with age, but her memory stays glued in the hearts of men. 

The woman is specifically created by God as a blessing to mankind. Cherish the women around you and they will do you good only.

A serious controversy arose yesterday hindged on the fact that those who dated long before poping the question; will you marry me? Enjoy marriage more than those who barely dated for a very short period of time before saying “I do”.

I seem to be indifferent Sha? What is your position?

Another word for dating is courtship, it’s a period of getting to know each other when the relationship has moved from mere friendship to a more serious level.

Do they really know each other at this stage? 

Is the period not one of deceit?

Dating erased the old practice of our fore father’s system of marriage to stranger. But seriously their marriage lasted better than what is obtainable presently.

What was the secret then?  Please furnish it in the comment column below.

Was it tolerance, love, money, age difference?

Let’s talk this talk.

A lot of married couple are struggling with their marriage, a large population calls it quit before you know it they go their different ways,  some are there swallowing all manner because of what people will say, others are playing the marriage as game.

Is it the cause of long or short dating or there is more to it?

Life throws at us different delicate issues.

Cristabel a fair lady in 400 level Political science department, with a bright future ahead of her fantasized over her friend Eric for months. Eric is a dark tall handsome civil engineer who works at Chevron unknown to her was a playboy.

Their relationship was too good to be true, they finally fell in love with each other and one dinner outing Eric popped the question will you marry me in a very serene environment?

Yes Cristabel reciprocated.

Their journey started out with lunch dates and grew into marriage. The marriage celebration was the talk of town.

Few weeks after the celebration of their marriage, the coupled returned from honey moon to their matrimonial home.

Cristabel stumbled on message that revealed her husband was in a relationships with a friend of hers in her faculty.

The annoying thing is that this lady was present throughout their wedding.

This discovery was as a result of her going through his phone after all they are now one and are expected to share things in common.

She tried talking about it with her husband during dinner, but this revealed an ugly side she had never noticed before. He got really angry, physically abused her and moved out of the matrimonial home.

Cristabel is confused, if tears could solve this issue it would have been worth the while, because as for cry she has cried but the issue is staring at her face.

What options are open to her?

Should she confide in a friend?

Can her husband best friend be approached to wade into the matter?

Should she go to their Pastor?

Will her mother-in-law be in a better position to solve the problem?

Help Cristabel needs a friendly advice urgently?

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Potential is the potency of God in man.  God gave man different talents, gifts and potentials.

To discover the potentials man needs to do a discovery of its source.

God being the creator of man is man’s source and He created a manual for man that is the word of God.

Man needs to search the word of God because it is “A lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path.” 

The word of God also help in governing our lives because it is for doctrine, reproof and correction.

When man has discovered his or her potentials, he moves on to the next task to cultivate and feed it. The potentials grows by the help of the Holy Spirit.

There is also the stage where man needs to guard and protect it’s potentials to avoid loss.  He must fight against procrastination, fear, discouragement.

Man’s gifts or potentials is to be shared, because it was given to man to be a blessing. Thus the world is waiting for the manifestation of the sons of God (Man).

Do you have gifts?

Do you have potentials?

What is the challenge you are faced with that has held you from maximizing Your Potential?

If you have put your potentials and gift to work what steps did you take to get to where you are?

This task could be very demanding though it looks very easy.  Lots of persons have been elevated why some others destroyed by this singular act.

Recently at a law office a Lady came over that her husband asked her to bring the divorce papers so that he can sign and they will path ways. I couldn’t laugh though it sounded funny because she thought it was that easy.